As a young man in university I wish I knew that.
What grieves me most is the information that after getting out of this abusive situation she got into another even after moving to a different city.
I have little info as I only learned the details through friends. She never spoke to me again after breaking off our friendship when I did what I did to her BF/abuser.
Its so difficult, but when she finally seeks and gets help...she will come to realize what a good friend you are. I really feel for ya Derbs
CKA Uber 
